This has been a good week for my mother. (Isn't it nice to read that for a change?)
I think the medication is finally starting to kick in. She still seems to have pain when she tries to get up, but she doesn't complain or seem to be suffering most of the time. And it may be the medication that is making her loopy. We have had long conversations lately, all of them kind of fun because she makes no sense whatever. Sometimes she knows who I am, sometimes she thinks I'm her sister. I think she recognizes me and then she'll say something like "how is Mom?" when I will stop and ask her if she knows my name and she doesn't, thpugh she recognizes that I'm family and she loves me.
She doesn't talk gibberish, but she talks nonsense, asking questions or making observations that make no sense whatever, but she believes them and it's kind of fun to go along with her. I just follow along with whatever she says, asking question about how she'd do this or that, what she wants to move, etc. We often laugh when she can't come up with an answer.
One of the best things I ever did was putting her into the assisted living program. She wasn't ready for it (and would not have qualified for long term care insurance payments) if I had done it earlier, but now that she is on, there are people in and out of her apartment all day long, checking on this or that, giving her meds, etc. She has always been a social person and now she has someone to talk to several times a day.
Not only that, but I know she is eating regularly and that she's getting her meds on a regular schedule. AND, what may be even ore important, knowing that she is getting attention, I don't feel the need to go and visit her every day and consequently I enjoy going to Atria more than I did when I felt I had to be there (almost) every day.
I don't know how long this situation is going to last, but I'm certainly enjoying it right now.